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There is no accepted ideal time to wean children either from the breast or from the bottle. There are considerable cultural differences in when children are weaned from the breast. Some "authorities" claim that the fact that in some countries breast feeding typically continues to age four, five or six means that this is a good idea for our culture. I think not. What works in one culture is not automatically appropriate in another - if you think about it, these many differences in practices and beliefs are what make different cultures different.
The argument that breastfeeding until two or more years old is "natural" and therefore superior because it is practiced in more primitive societies is subtly and fundamentally flawed. While it is true that this method of infant nutrition in subsistence cultures works after a fashion, the fact that in wealthier societies
General weaning tips:
Weaning from breast to bottle:
The first big weaning tip I can give breastfeeding mothers who plan or need to wean much before a year old is to let the infant have an artificial nipple just enough that he will accept it as an alternative food source in a pinch. This does not interfere with nursing at all (see nipple confusion). A little water every day or two at first, then only as much artificial nipple exposure as is necessary to keep Baby reminded that milk can come from this funny bottle thing, too. Then when the time comes to go back to work or whatever, I use this method:
Breast to cup is about the same as above.
Nurse for seven minutes, then offer the cup with formula (or whole milk if it is appropriate - if the baby is at least about a year old, you can go right to whole cow milk without the formula stage, and this is what I personally recommend). Then, every two days or so, drop a minute from the nursing time and wean off the breast as above. You might need to go a little slower - maybe drop a minute every third day - if you are getting resistance from the baby or if she isn't drinking very well from the cup yet and isn't getting enough from that route to displace the breast milk.
Going from bottle to cup is usually easy. Read the section on milk refusal for pointers if your child doesn't want to even try the cup. Once Baby takes the cup, you can simply substitute cup for bottle at more and more feedings and pretty soon you are done with it.
Last point: when your child walks around the house with a bottle in hand begging for you to refill it, it is time to wean.